Get better at oral sex

In fact, oral sex is widely known as the most reliable way to give a person with a vulva the big O. Studies consistently show that the vast majority of vulva-owners require clitoral stimulation in order to have an orgasm, and oral sex puts the clit front and center. This is just science, friends. The issue? Given the state of sex-ed in America, we're assuming you didn't hear the word "clitoris" in school. Then there's the fact that the clit often gets ignored in mainstream penetration-focused pornography.

Whether you're dating someone new or just really want to give passionate oral sex to your current partner, everybody—and every vagina—is different. What pleased a previous partner may not work for your current sexual interest, and you may find yourself wondering whether there are other techniques out there that you're missing. We spoke with certified sex therapist Holly Richmond, Ph. With over two dozen techniques, we're sure one of these will help you do the trick. For many women, orgasming is physical and mental; they need to feel relaxed and in the mood.

First step: Stop thinking of it as a job. Done correctly, oral sex can be satisfying for both of you — so long as you follow this sage advice. Everybody wins! It sounds intimidating, but the payoff is worth it.

Oral sex is one of the most intimate things you can do with a partner, not to mention, it also feels really effing good for whoever is receiving it. Seeing your partner in the throes of passion can also be a huge ego boosting turn-on for the giver as well, which kinda makes oral sex a win-win. If you wanna make sure your oral game is the best it can be when it comes to not only giving but also receiving, read on.